Singledom is on the rise, and now, for the first time, singles now outnumber married people in several parts of the world. In urban areas in Australia almost one in three women aged 30 to 34 do not have a partner; in Spain the numbers are the same. 30% of Japanese women aged 30-45 are not getting married, while, married women in their thirties in the USA dropped below 50 percent for the first time. China has about 20 million more men under 30 than women, yet there are 800,000 unmarried 30-plus-year-old women with a good education and high income, who choosing not to marry.

Despite this growing trend, being a single woman continues to bring with it a cultural stigma of discrimination, what’s been coined by social scientist Bella DePaulo as “singlism”. Our language is a telling tale: “spinster” in English, “solterona” in Spanish, or in Mandarin “shengnu” – a literal translation of being “leftover”! The prejudice, which is systemic, ubiquitous but often subtle and unrecognised, affects very significantly how women think and judge themselves. While some enjoy the freedoms of being single, there too often remains an underlying fear of failure and inadequacy. But that’s not all. Research shows that singlism contributes to discrimination of women in the workplace, in housing markets, in politics, in media and more generally in everyday life.

Singled [Out] explores the cross-cultural stigma that exists while aiming to change the narrative about female singledom. By putting on screen these five stories, the film works to both unfold the anxieties women face because of singlism, while simultaneously aiming to highlight the myths that different cultures perpetuate to maintain coupling as the status quo. The film considers the role that media, culture, religion and social values play in how single women are treated, and the real effects that this has on how women value themselves, as well as exploring the place of love on this era, the era of modern love.